EPISODE 03: Stop Selling Products and Start Solving Problems
- 3% Mindset
- Apr 14
- 3 min read
Updated: May 19
3% Mindset Podcast – Episode 3 with Steve Wilmer
This is not your therapy session.This is where business owners learn how to actually close deals.
In Episode 3 of the 3% Mindset Podcast, Steve Wilmer breaks down one of the biggest mistakes entrepreneurs and salespeople make:
They lead with the product instead of the problem.
And according to Steve, that mistake is costing people money every single day.
Nobody Cares About Your Product
One of the hardest truths in sales is this:
Customers do not care about your product.They care about whether you can solve their problem.
Most business owners spend too much time talking about:
features
services
credentials
company details
packages
Meanwhile, the customer is silently asking:
“What’s in it for me?”
Steve explains that top salespeople understand one thing:
money changes hands when problems get solved.
That means if you want to increase sales, stop pitching products and start diagnosing pain points.
Stop Explaining. Start Diagnosing.
A major takeaway from Episode 3 is the comparison between sales and a doctor’s appointment.
Doctors don’t immediately prescribe medication.
First, they:
ask questions
diagnose the issue
identify the pain
understand the symptoms
Only then do they prescribe the solution.
Sales works the exact same way.
Steve teaches that business owners should stop trying to “convince” people and instead focus on understanding:
what’s broken
what’s frustrating the customer
what the problem is costing them
and how serious the pain really is
Because once the pain becomes clear, the solution becomes valuable.
The Problem With Most Sales Pitches
According to Steve, most entrepreneurs are:
overexplaining
talking too much
giving too many options
and focusing on themselves instead of the customer
That creates confusion.
And confused customers rarely buy.
One of the strongest lines from this episode:
“Professionals use scripts. Amateurs wing it.”
Steve challenges entrepreneurs to stop “shooting from the hip” and start using proven frameworks, questions, and systems when selling.
Because confidence comes from preparation.
Sales Is Not About Convincing
This episode completely reframes what sales really is.
Most people think sales means:
pressuring people
manipulating people
forcing people to buy
Steve rejects that mindset entirely.
Instead:
sales is about service.
A great salesperson is not trying to force a customer into something they don’t need.
A great salesperson:
identifies the problem
understands the pain
and presents a real solution
That changes the entire energy of the conversation.
Why Customers Buy Emotionally
Another major point from Episode 3 is psychology.
Steve explains that people buy when:
they feel understood
they feel pain
they feel urgency
and they believe you understand their situation
That’s why vague language kills sales.
If your message:
applies to everyone
sounds too soft
or doesn’t create urgency
…it won’t convert.
One of the strongest statements from the episode:
“If your customer isn’t feeling anything, they’re not buying anything.”
Friends and Family May Not Support You
One of the realest moments in the episode comes when Steve addresses entrepreneurship and relationships.
He explains why friends and family often don’t support new businesses:
they still see you as the old version of yourself
they don’t yet see you as the expert
and many people struggle to separate friendship from business
But Steve makes one thing clear:
you cannot build your business based on other people’s validation.
The vision was given to you—not them.
Key Lessons
✅ Solve problems, don’t pitch products
✅ Ask questions before offering solutions
✅ Scripts create consistency and confidence
✅ Emotion drives buying decisions
✅ Confused customers do not buy
✅ Sales is service, not manipulation
✅ Stop waiting on family and friends to validate your business
Episode 3 Challenge
Steve leaves listeners with a practical assignment:
1. Define the Problem You Solve
Write down 3 pain points your business solves.
2. Practice Explaining It
Say it:
in the mirror
to a friend
to a stranger
and eventually to a room full of people
3. Stop Leading With Your Product
Start leading with:
the customer’s pain
the customer’s frustration
and the result they want
Final Thoughts
Episode 3 is one of the most practical episodes yet for entrepreneurs, coaches, consultants, and business owners trying to increase sales and communicate more effectively.
This episode isn’t about hype.
It’s about understanding people, solving problems, and learning how to serve at a higher level.
🎧 Watch Episode 3 of the 3% Mindset Podcast on YouTube now.
OOH-RAH.
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